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Parent 01
Send through dexter.lim@hypnosisasia.com.sg
Sent: Tuesday, June 17, 2008 2:49 PMTo: Dexter C.Lim
Subject: Wonderful day
Date: Jun.17’2008
Kind Attn.: Mr. Dexter
We would like to inform you that yesterday (Jun.16’2008) is our family happiest after so many months.
Let us start from the morning:
1) Before I went off to work, I have started to hug my children and I will said “DAD LOVE YOU”.
Although I knew that the 02 kids have slept but I can feel that “DAD” has done something to them and they are sleeping with their smile.
2) Suddenly, I have received “XXX” phone call that she forgot to correction for the tuition class and she have almost 30 questions wrong and if 20 times per each question then she have to write about 600 sentences and she has afraid that the tutor will scold her.
Our solution to her is:
We cool her down first and We have spoken to her that not to worry and we will tell the tutor to accept Thursday but she must try her best to write as much as she can so that the tutor will not scold “XXXX (at first we though that the tutor want her to state back and write finish).
But thing get changed, when my spouse approached the tutor and he told XXXX that she do not need to correct and he wanted XXXX to write the Newspaper cutting instead.
“XXXX” was so happy and she called me straight back from the tuition centre.
3) Next surprise is that when I came back home and I saw “XXXX” drawing a picture and she said 01 for Father Day and another 01 for Uncle Dexter. I was so pleased that normally she does not like to draw except the school art class because she already said that her drawing is not good. But today I saw her drawing with happiness and I feel very happy to hug her and said “Well done”.
4) After my dinner, four of us sat down watching “TV” and talk about TV programme and their drawing. We feel that is very happy during that few hours. We have so talk about how to bring ourselves to her level meaning that if “XXXXXX” continue to make herself happy every day. When next week school re-open and she knew how to plan her work and she will not feel worry for her next examination. We also did tell her that we will accept all the mark her score.
5) About 10:00 p.m. “XXXX suddenly pointed out that we have to brush our teeth and hug together before we can go to bed. My spouse suggested to them that from now on ward every day have to do before sleeping time and we all agree.
6) After the 02 kids went to bed, we have some discuss about why today the 02 kids are so special. But my spouse keep on think that how can “XXXX” does well in her subject. I told her that if a person opens up her mind and willing to do what she likes, she will be improving for all her subject. “XXX” today feel happy also because of the tutor not push her too far.
We hope every will do our best to make sure our kids has a very please day.
Please kindly advice us if we have done wrongly.
Parents
Parent 02
Hi Dexter,
Thank you for your professional teaching and we learn so much.
We feel that all enties things every parent knew to do it BUT not every one know how to do it in a Right way.
Through the mistake then we will guide them into correct way.
Million Thanks for your guidance
Parents
Note: No names are mentioned here for the purpose of Private & confidentiality of index person.
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Airlines Industry
Andi S.Indana
Indonesia, Jakarta
Probably God asked me to meet him to release my pain which already stayed at me for more than 3 months. He helped me to cure myself... renewed my life and give positive feedback about who I'm, how good I am n how to run my life in the future. He's not only my mentor but also a good friend... and I like him to be part of my circle friends.... Thanks my dear Dexter... and wishing you that God will help you a lot for your future.... in sharing your work with many people :)
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Education Industry
Annie Tan, 50
From Principal to Educational Adviser
Singapore
I am Annie; I am 50 years old and single. I was a childcare principal for the past 12 years. I decided to switch my career from principal to sales for a change of environment. However, after switching my career, I had to struggle in the job, as sales are totally new to me. My income is not fixed and I was very stressed and anxious about the uncertainty of my income, as I need the income to pay my bills and my daily expenses.
It was during, this period of time that I met Dexter. Dexter kindly offered to do therapy for me. I agreed, but on the day of the appointment, I was contemplating whether I should go, as I was pretty skeptical about hypnosis. However I went, since I had already promised Dexter. During the process of coaching, as I reflected my past, I had panic attacked and realized that I had other issues and I wanted to terminate the process as I felt fearful and venerable. When I told Dexter about my decision to stop the process, he was very understanding, He allowed me to think over. He also assured me that if at any point that I need him, He will be there for me. However, I also realized that if I wanted a breakthrough in my life I had to go through the process. I am glad that I have plucked the courage to go through the following process with encouragement from one of my best friends and Dexter.
Performing Art Therapy
The performing Art Therapy has helped me to be aware of my body language and movement. I believed that I could move more confidently and connect better with people now.
Hypnosis
I am a very restless person, Hypnosis helps to clam me down, remove my anxiety, fear, confusion and be at peace with myself.
The whole process had helped me to have more self- awareness and through the process I learnt I had to make choices like to live for myself and care for myself before I could extend my love to others. Before, the process I was confused as to what I should do with my life, as there are many distractions from family members and friends. My thought were not focus, there were full of fear and anxiety. The process had helped me to have clarity of mind and to be more focus on what I wanted to do with my life.
I foresee that future sessions will help me to succeed in life. I will have the courage to be the person who I really am. Now I have been doing well in my sales, with law of attraction and sales training apart from Coaching and Hypnosis.
Dexter’s years of experiences in sales & marketing gave me a thorough understanding on the psychology behind the sales process and handling my clients. The coaching & training style of Dexter is very interactive. It is fun. Dexter is able to deliver what I wanted to achieve for myself.
In conclusion, I would say the work of Hypnosis Training Asia helps to change people life to inspire other people life and to be a blessing to people for the betterment of the society.
Eppie Sin
Teacher Assistance
International School, Singapore
Dexter has come by to me as some one warmth and helpful. I was amazed that he has such wonderful gifting to be able to listens and listen well at his age; I am for sure his skills in helping people definitely comes with experiences in handling many issues of the different people coming to him for life coaching.
I appreciate him from the bottom of my heart for the process he went through with me without expectation of reciprocation from me when I was down and faces challenges in my career. He has helped me to be more aware of myself, helping me to help myself to let go. At times, I went “Ah Huh!” at different juncture of sharing. That shows his effectiveness without injecting any solutions from his personal perspective.
It helped me to be able to view my issues from a different stand point and gaining self efficiency. He is a person who is with a big heart always willingly to share his passion, hope, joy, enthusiasm of life; he is fun loving person with at heart, passionate about life and having a great sense of humors about things in life that made him what he is today! Experience to see it!
Julian Tan
Trainee Teacher
Singapore
During this period, he has shown to be a person that is reliable, helpful and approachable. He has shown much caring to the staffs under his charge and was always there to help out with any questions and queries that they have.
He helped me, talked to me, share with me when I am in the cross road of making decisions in the direction of my life and my career path. I was glad to have met Dexter and finally come in term of myself and decided to do what I really wanted to do.
Dexter is a very hands-on person and is a very people oriented person. Just a few hours with him and you'll know he's really passionate with his work because he would share with you without any hold back to help you in your life regardless your race, age or economic status which I have witness. I would not hesitate to make a referral to him as a counselor or a training coach as he is focus, he is compassionate, he is capable, he will be committed to you, he know 100% of what is he doing and I know he will contribute 100% to the work he is doing for you.
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Logistic
Jason Yap, 27
Singapore
I have come to see Dexter for my challenges after a month being hospitalised due to an accident in my work place. After I returned to work, I felt that I could not cope as well as before with work changes and with my colleagues even with my relationship with my girlfriend and family. I constantly felt anger and frustration within me which sometimes got out of control and build fences around me. I became possessive in relationship and lose control of my emotions many times and did many things which hurt my loves one and they just could not understand me. I felt my emotions are like roller coaster and I could not be able to sleep well and constantly being agitated by my issues at work, with my family and girlfriend.
After I came to Dexter in the month of Janurary 2007. During the first session of Trinity Coaching and hypnosis session, I am more able to focus and more creative in dealing with work and relationship changes. Now I am in my sixth session of Trinity Coaching and Hypnosis to work through different issues I have such as goal setting, learning to be able to communicate better, how to creative meaningful relationships and more. My relationship with my girlfriend, work colleagues and with family members improves and my girl friend told me that I am changed to the person I once was and even better. She even accompanied me and waited for me while I was doing the past session with Dexter. She see the changes and encourage me to carry on with the coaching and hypnosis even she knew nothing much about it and she is very supportive toward me.
I am grateful to have met Dexter who is very focus in his job as a Coach and Hypnotherapist to me as he listens and work through many processes with me. Dexter also guided me to able to have the creativity and passion in dealing with challenges in my professional and personal life. I am sure Dexter would have plenty to offer to anyone who is seeking for changes in life challenges to able to embrace life situation in a more passionate way.
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Creative Industry
Patrick Ong, 31
Graphic Designer
Singapore-Malacca
My name is Patrick, 31, a graphic designer in profession, working in Singapore. I get to know Hypnosis Training Asia by chance and I came from Malacca. Dexter has work with me of my fear to be assertive at work, guided me to deal with my low self esteem and relationship issues.
After the first session of coaching, I am empowered to able to say no to people rather than be a YES man and I felt really good about myself the first time to be able to be true to my own emotional needs. I have the problem in getting the right relationship and alway finds myself attracting the wrong group of people. I am always feeling lonely, Dexter also bring to my own awareness of what I want, what I need to deal with it and teach me about the law of attraction which I knew long ago. But with Dexter, the process seemed clearer each time I see him for Coaching and Hypnosis session. We work through processes that during my childhood days which had moulded me to be what and who I am and I find the many difficulties in my growth up life. Dexter helps me to see clearly who I am, what need to change and guilded me to break my self sabotaging thoughts patterns and be more in control of my emotions. I am a more confident person and through the session I have reaped so much which my bosses and colleagues see the differences and treated me differently compared to before which can be a pain to me.
I have work with psychologist before and I did not get such results for the same issues. I believe it is due to Dexter's passion and experiences working with different people in life that makes him so different in helping me getting the results I did not expect. Thank you once again, Dexter!
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Secretary
Ms Nancy Phoon
APRIL Group
Roy Wong, Snr Ops Assistant
Parents of Super Band Singapore-Mi Lu Bing
Dexter displays professionalism and has a committed attitude towards people whom he comes in contact with. He has such gifting to connect to people of all ages and, helping them to work through their issues and the passion in reaching out to the community and touching lives.
He has displayed compassion and kindness at heart, simply a people person. Again, I saw his very warm, passionate and patient personality. I strongly believed that whoever come to Dexter, will surely benefit and will be helped by him.
I would strongly recommend Dexter Calvin Lim as a life coach or counsellor for people at the cross roads at any point of their life.
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Banking Industry
Kris Ong
Mother of 3
Singapore
Dexter Calvin Lim whom I have had known for 5 years is a mature and responsible individual. A compassionate man by nature, he shows empathy towards people from all walks of life and is a good listener to problems. He is Capable of resolving conflicts in human relationship. His friendly personality, professionalism, passion in life and excellent interpersonal skills has won him a lot of friends. I will highly recommend him as a counsellor as he has been proven to be able to reach out, brightening up and empowering people's life.
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Civil Servant
Rita
Singapore
I went through depression due to broken relationship in Dec 2004. i was really very down and depressed. I was unable to concentrate on what ever I was doing, i wouldn’t focus well and I was having the fear to be alone. I felt trapped by the experiences in my relationship issues; I needed someone to talk to all the while during these periods. I avoided public events too.
I have met Mr. Dexter during my studies, who guided me step by step to get out of my trap in my depression. He has willingly spent his time counselling me without expecting anything, to help me to understand myself better to gain self knowledge & self empowerment. During the process of counselling and communication with Mr. Dexter, I was brought to my self awareness and helped me to expand possibilities and creativities in my issues
His great selfless assistance has really help me to come out of that situation and i am grateful for whatever he has done for me through his patience, his compassion, his guidance and most importantly, his care & concern at the point of my life. Now which I have gained the balance of my life and Mr. Dexter has taught me valuable tools and techniques which I believed they will be part of me for the many years to come. They would be helpful to me whenever I face any crisis or challenges at any point of my life to emerge as an over-comer Again and Again and Again! I always have him in my mind to call him during all happy occasions in my life to share my joy and “rebirth” in my life.
I AM CHANGED; I HAVE SUCCESSFULLY BREAK THE SELF SABOTAGING THOUGHTS/TALK PATTERN. I AM ENJOYING EVERY PRESENSE OF MY LIFE OF BEING THE “REAL” ME.
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Business Industry
Nancy Chang
Business Owner - Spa Treatment products
Singapore
I was a full time housewife for the past 13 years and I am 48 years old now. I would like to share this with everyone who read this page about Dexter’s work and what he had done for me and my teenage son.
During the life’s darkest trail, Dexter was there for me and my sixteen years old son with open arms and with plenty of tender loving care (TLC). If not for Dexter, I would not be where I am at the current stage of life to embrace the truth of the infidelity of my spouse. Dexter has given me the gift of self awareness and self empowerment. He guide me to let go of the wrong belief system that I am not a good, attractive wife, therefore my marriage failed.
He has worked through with me on my self-sabotaging thoughts patterns and mindset to help me find my balance, guide me dealt with my confident issues, helping me to gain self- empowerment with the freedom of choices in life by using different form of therapeutic tools especially music and metaphors to help me see things in a different “Light”.
Far being perfect, of course, at times I gave in to my emotions and confused mind. He was always there and is there for me as a counsellor, life skills educator /Coach, reminding me and provided the support to me yet not allowing me to be reliance on him.
Dexter went beyond his call of duty to help me and my son out and be with us. He has helped my son to work through the process of his first love relationship and sexual issues. Dexter is kind, warmth, patience, congruence, helpful and encouraging all these while through his commitment and dedication in reaching out to my son and I.
I would strongly recommend Dexter as your Life Coach and Counsellor. DO NOT hesitate to pick up the phone when you needed help and I would say Dexter would be the right one for you.
Ken Wong
Café Owner
Malaysia, KL
While perusing my dream of setting up my chain of café in Malaysia, I lost track in life. The first Café was unsuccessful and due to many differences among the business partner, we decided to go on our ways after nine months of hard work and sweat.
I was depleted of energy and motivation after the closure of my business. I was affected by the disappointment, sadness, anger and frustration and lost my focus in life.
I was glad to have met Dexter and he inspired me to keep my dream alive. He encourages me to reach for the star and not just the tallest of buildings. Now, I am recharged and ready for another GO to reach higher that I have aimed for.
Talking to Dexter for a few hours on the innermost issues in my life has help me to unveil issues about myself and expand my creativities again to gain more insight in my future endeavour in my business which I have not experience in a long time.
In Life, I believe everyone would need a gentle push like what Dexter has given me. Dexter is a great life coach, whom I believe have helped me and will also help you to re-shift and align the focus back in life. He guided me with these three simple phrases of “I BELIEVE! I CAN! I WILL!”
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Michelle Lee
Singapore-Malaysia, Johor Bahru
What I feel about Dexter? Well, I knew him through a friend. Dexter used to travel to JB for visits and relaxation. Dexter may look funny and cute on the outside but on the inside, you will find SOMEONE else- powerful and effective motivator.
His passion in his work, his inspiration in life to reach out to the community at large, his warmth, sincerity and caring nature make him an effective helper, counselor, and communicator. There are three occasions I would like to share with you:
First - My Granny
She's an old lady, who is always sitting on a chair with her cigarette lighted, watching the TV and looking forward for any visitors that could keep her company. Whenever Dexter arrives at my house, she would be smiling at him, and chit chatting to him non-stop. As you know, youngster like us would get annoyed from a long chat of grandmother stories and nagging, I mean I do, but Dexter, with his patience and tender loving care, has never say no or showed any annoyed expression on his face. My family and I were amazed with his connection with the elderly, I really appreciate his care and companion to my late granny. Thank you very much, Dexter!
Second - My best friend's Aunt
A middle-age lady lying on the bed in the hospital ward, tears in the eyes with only minutes or hours of life left to see her own children. Dexter was invited to JB by my best friend, Master, to see if he can help in any way to do some work with her terminally ill aunt and her bereaved cousins. Master told me that Dexter’s present was like a touching real life story. The way Dexter console them when her aunt left this world for Eternity, was like God sent them the much needed pillar to lean on.
Third Encounter - My 21 year old friend
One year back, Christina, my friend faced some family problem as well as relationship issues, and attempted suicide. Friends and family were worried, we tried to cheer her up and accompany her whenever we can. She was so withdrawn to herself, even calling everyday didn’t help. So we decided to approach Dexter in Singapore upon how we can help her. Dexter came all the way to visit her, talked to her, gave her his professional consultation, showed her what she can do, and guided her to be aware of her own personality, and changing her mindset. We saw her finally able to accept new friends and start to smile as she really meant it in just a few short weeks.
Now, when I encounter any problems, I won't hesitate to consult Dexter. I would also recommend him to anyone who needs a Life Coach. For he is the one whom I believe would really guide you to the right path.
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Student
Andurew Tang, 17
Tertiary Student
Singapore
I have known Dexter for 3 years. He is a friend of my mum. He is really a true friend indeed. He helped my mother through her time of despair, where my father cheated on her of another woman. There was not a time where Dexter would not be there for us. Although we are ages apart, I can always communicate with him just like a friend, a brother & Dexter indeed a life role model for me.
Dexter has been my confidant, and had helped me boost my self esteem. Before knowing him, I had no confidence and felt that I was short, ugly and useless. Basically I have low self esteem. However, after knowing him, he had helped me boost my self esteem and I feel good about myself. Dexter has always helped me in my studies when I needed it, he was even willing to take time off from his busy schedule to help me with my O level Chinese.
He had also helped me through one of my troubled times besides helping me to cope with the broken relationship of my parents. When my first girlfriend broke up with me, it was a very painful for me! I was in a stage of depression, I thought that I could not live on without my ex-girlfriend; I felt that I was in the wrong and blamed myself for her leaving me. Dexter worked through the process with me and educated me about relationship, sex and stuff in life. He was he never forceful or demands me to take his advice and he gave me freedom of choice to choose what I want to do with myself. He helped me to gain back my self confidence, see the talent and potential lies within me. Now, I have a new perspective of myself. Most importantly, he helped me to see and embrace life with passion and getting my focus right.
So I would advise or refer anyone with problems to count on Dexter for help. Now, I am a much happier person to face challenges in life. Seeing Myself “Differently” have given me more energy to take up new responsibility in school and doing well in my tertiary studies.
Thank you, Dexter for being with me throughout all these times!
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