The Power of Giving thanks!
I was once lost, but now I am found. I was once blind, but now I see
The Power of Faith
We absorb, We learn, We experience.
That Beautiful Transition
The Four Keys to Success in Everyone’s Life
Kind Deeds
The Power of Giving thanks!
"Give Thanks” in all life situations
When people face life crisis such as the following:
- Empty nest syndrome
- Identity issues with growing up teens
- Mid life crisis – changing of job, feeling of invaluable compare to the younger associate
- Managing loss of a loved one
- Parenting issues – Parents-child relationship drifted apart
- Relationship issues
Giving Thanks in life crisis helps to steer clear of self sabotaging thoughts patterns to maintain healthy cognitive and emotional state
I was once lost, but now I am found. I was once blind, but now I see
What we see! What we hear! What we perceived!
We are able people to see, hear, sense, communicate
- Are we able to claim we are able to see yet we can choose to be blind?
- Are we able to claim we are able to hear yet we chose to turn our deaf ears to plead and request?
- Are we able to claim we are able to talk yet sometimes we can choose to be mute?
- Are we able to claim we are able to feel? At times, did we choose to be emotionless to our surrounding?
Life is a Choice! People make decision at times to our own benefits and gains.
Let go! Let go of what is desired for self and able the self to be able to see, hear and communicate. You will see how much you can benefit from it.
Does one needs to live in remorse when one missed the opportunity to being able to see, talk, sense and communicate?
Be open, be clear & be intentional could help us to communicate effectively in our relationship with our environment in our professional and private life.
In this fast changing environment or world, there is list of questions we can reflect on ourselves as an individual.
- How we can be congruence with life both in professional and privately?
- How we can empathize with others?
- How can we give people “Unconditional Positive Regards” to help us to create a more accepting, more loving, more empowered environment and community?
Do you like to be able to be who you are? Someone who is able to hear, to see, to feel and communicate?
Seize the opportunity to bond.The Power of Faith
“Faith is not seeing it first but believing”
How about that! To able to believe yet not have seen it? It can be threatening for some people and create miracles for some others.
Faith without seeing yet believing create expectation, hope, motivation for people wanting to reach out for the stars.
Faith without seeing yet believing involve cognitive and emotional modification for great motivation, peak performance achieving results people want and be pro active in life.
The missing link here is the process how to do it, how to achieve it, how to be positive, expanding your mind, creativity via techniques of the different forms of therapy to achieve the different cognitive, behavioral and emotional state to achieve what you desired in life.
We absorb, We learn, We experience.
Value & Belief systems of individuals are different
Our Inner Child is free! Free! Free! Our inner child is free of fear, free of guilt, free of emotional baggage, free of self limitation. We are without boundaries.
We can heal and nurture our inner child once again! To be COMPLETEDLY FREE & WHOLESOME ONCE AGAIN!
- Are you aware that we have an inner child who can be healthy or hurting badly during the developmental stage in our life?
- Are we able to be whom and what we want?
- Many people said that it was their individual personality that makes people behaves differently in different setting.
Ever thought for yourself of the following:
- How I wish I could be this and that?
- How can I help myself?
- Why am I always ended up in such situations?
- Why I kept bonding with the same type of people?
- What can I do to improve myself?
- How and what model of people I can use to improve myself?
- How can I have the beak through in my social skills? And more… …
Choose to be who you are and be whatever situations you are in?
OR
Choose to be in the comfort zone and let it be?
Who we are today is where, how, why, what we absorb, learnt and experienced in the development state of our childhood years to the current.
WE CAN UNLEARN, WE CAN RECTIFY AND MEND THE BROKEN PIECES AND BE WHOLESOME AGAIN!
We absorb, We learn, We experience.
That Beautiful Transition
The process of life
Death & dying
Career
Relationship
Raising of children
Preparation of retirement
Enjoying the sun set days
Coping with loss of loved ones
Coping with loss of self to physical health and death
Living life to its fullest
Let’s go back to our first love, first job, the wedding day, first born. Do we retain those emotions of tears of joy? Take a moment to think of the excitement, expectation for that particular event to happen?
Take a moment for the sorrow of losing loved one to death, losing a relationship.
Now, take a moment to think about yourself. These experiences of joy,great expectation, happiness… fear, confusion, uncertainty
Are we ready to face death?
Are we ready to let go?
Are we able to finish the unfinished?
Facing death with joy and moving on
How to be come to term with ourselves?
How important to mend relationship before we pass on?
Ever we thought that in life, we face death and learning letting go everyday
Death to ourselves of events, incidents, ego, pride, perspectives, emotions,
In all things in life, we seize the day to enjoy the different parts of beautiful transitions.
The Four Keys to Success in Everyone’s Life
By Shananda Barua, A personal friend of Hypnosis Training Asia, a Thai Monk with compassion & passion for lives.
Anyhow everyone wants to be successful in life, but not all get together with success. Because of our great weakness that we do not know how to use as well behave though we have language to speak, have ability to control, have power to destroy and personal quality in our mind. Successful people are well known and respected; the stories of their lives are recoded and studied by both their social group and next generations. They are therefore immortalized and looked upon as a source of creative idea for those who desire to succeed like wise.
We are being Buddhists and have enough understanding about the life as well more responsibilities to the welfare of beings around us. To be obedient our duties we should think about the success in life. On the other hand to achieve the success we must find the key to open the door of the success in our day today life. The Buddha has taught us the way to success in many of his discourses. According to one of these discourses, there are four virtues that, when developed, lead to success and enable man to achieve his goals in life. So, here these four types of keys are clear mention that Will, Effort, Active Thought, and Wisdom (saying to Pali; Chanda, Viriya, Citta, and Vimamsa).
The first key to success is the will to work or to fulfill one’s duties to the best of one’s ability. This means that one should have desire, interest, and strong determination in mind to work. There should be the right attitude toward what one is expected to do. Will is, in fact, a primary condition in the carrying out of one’s responsibilities, without which nothing much can be talented.
The second is effort or urgency in one’s undertakings. This implies the eternal application of energy to the work one is supposed to do. When we undertake to do something, we should use ourselves, fully and continually, until the duty is completed. If students are simply interested in the subjects they study, but do not want to actively commit themselves, the chance for success would be very thin indeed. Effort is therefore a very important and essential factor for success in our life. We should try to cultivate this virtue in us. Even though if we be able to understand in right way then we may bring peach and success within short time in life.
Active thought means the thought about one’s work which is well-directed and always applied. We use to do usually to survive day today life by using our won technique and power of brain from our limited experienced. So, good thinking is very much fruitful to be succeeding in everyone’s life. Can be mentioned that ‘no pains, no gains’ whatever we do, be it great or small, we have to apply our active thought to it, again and again, until it is finished. If we do not succeed at the first attempt, we should not feel discouraged or unhappy, but should think about it carefully and work even harder. We should be positive in our thinking and firm in our goals.
The last virtue is also very important to be succeeded. Wisdom is necessary in all kinds of activities. Without wisdom totally impossible to bring success or achieve the goal whatever we want to gain or something day to day our life. When we work, we should always examine and observe the work we do; we should have good planning from the beginning and a good understanding of the work that what I am going to do. It is not enough to work hard; we should also work wisely, using our intelligence and common sense. Only those who work in this way will attain a high degree of success in their lives within short time. The use of wisdom will prevent us from doing wrong things and make sure our success to follow the good examples and moral advices that given by the Buddha. The Buddha has given us much more directions to follow and showed the way to achieve the purpose without doing any sinful activities as well using wrong ideas in own mind. It is therefore very important that we learn how to cultivate wisdom and how to use it in all our activities. Hopeful that, we have mutual understanding and can be able to remember in our mind above these four keys to success in life.
At the end I would like to mention that very difficult to gain the object in this modern life whatever we want to reach to ambition. This is the period that full of competition, greediness, hatred and delusion for things around the human beings. So, to be succeeding in this present time we should remember the things what are very much essential and important for oneself as well welfare of the beings in this universe.
Kind Deeds
Written by Shananda Barua, A Personal Friend of Hypnosis Training Asia, a Thai Monk, with compassion & passion for lives.
Little drops of water,
Little grains of sand,
Make the mighty ocean,
And the pleasant land.
Thus the little minutes,
Humble though they be,
Make the mighty ages of eternity.
Little deeds of kindness,
Little words of love,
Make this earth an Eden
Like the heaven above.